Friday, April 25, 2008

Friendship’s Fallacy


The acquaintances that one develops are indeed paths that lead to the realization of the fact that it is friendship and only friendship that can help one love life. However, as time proceeds the bond strengthens and a stage arrives where immense trust overwhelms it. It is friendship that teaches one to smile in a situation which leaves nothing but for destruction all around. This strength that gets embedded helps to outperform the challenges in every sphere of life. The worth of a lesson leant via this source is the most valuable asset that human life gets awarded with.

Friendship has no boundaries. It teaches one to look at things from a wider angle. There is a question that we humans keep for. And somehow we mistake the closeness in informal friendship for a feeling as eternal as love. With this notion there arises an uneasiness, which perhaps wipes out the pure alliance between the souls. This hypothesis which creeps in, deforms life into a rugged path. To miscalculate friendship as love is a mistake but mistrusting love as friendship is a transgression. Life can proceed if one is made aware of the former blunder. However, the inaccuracy to take love for friendship inhibits one to accomplish ecstasy, even by drawing on other means ‘coz there is nothing that can replace love….even friendship cannot.

A friend will never verbalize if he has laid his eyes on someone…Your love will never articulate that he lays his eyes on you all the time…That's what true love all about. Silence is enough to express countless emotions in love. However, in friendship a slight conformation is required. That is the second spot which sets love and friendship apart. However, love and friendship are almost alike in many respects. One of life’s biggest contests is to demarcate friendship from love. The answer to this problem is embedded in the dark corner of the heart which is untold until one takes the first step to read everything in the eyes of the person whose character and attitude are exclusively the things that teaches you to live life in the best way possible…..

To prevent the heart from overestimating friendship as love and obstructing the mind to mistrust love as friendship are solely the two errands that will decide upon your success in life. Friendship is also a form of love. However, love is a bond which can never establish itself if friendship is absent in the first step that leads to the realization of this eternal feeling. Understanding these two important concepts only, decide your fate to take delight in the happiness and bliss which awaits us in life.

2 comments:

VanDiablo said...
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VanDiablo said...

"we mistake the closeness in informal friendship for a feeling as eternal as love."

I have gone through it...

Thanks for writing..