Coming Home . .

I'd rather have you cry on my shoulder
Than to have to cry on your casket
I want you to take my hand now
And I hope that you never let go
Whisper to me all the things you want to
I'll listen to you until I'm dead and gone

Cry on me
Just let me see
Tell me how you feel
Let me know you're real
Let me put my arms around you
And let you feel something new

Don't try to cut your life
I won't let you use the knife
Don't poison your life away
I need you with me everyday
I know there's nothing I can say
But I need you to stay.

. . Source : Unknown . .

Friendship’s Fallacy

The acquaintances that one develops are indeed paths that lead to the realization of the fact that it is friendship and only friendship that can help one love life. However, as time proceeds the bond strengthens and a stage arrives where immense trust overwhelms it. It is friendship that teaches one to smile in a situation which leaves nothing but for destruction all around. This strength that gets embedded helps to outperform the challenges in every sphere of life. The worth of a lesson leant via this source is the most valuable asset that human life gets awarded with.

Friendship has no boundaries. It teaches one to look at things from a wider angle. There is a question that we humans keep for. And somehow we mistake the closeness in informal friendship for a feeling as eternal as love. With this notion there arises an uneasiness, which perhaps wipes out the pure alliance between the souls. This hypothesis which creeps in, deforms life into a rugged path. To miscalculate friendship as love is a mistake but mistrusting love as friendship is a transgression. Life can proceed if one is made aware of the former blunder. However, the inaccuracy to take love for friendship inhibits one to accomplish ecstasy, even by drawing on other means ‘coz there is nothing that can replace love….even friendship cannot.

A friend will never verbalize if he has laid his eyes on someone…Your love will never articulate that he lays his eyes on you all the time…That's what true love all about. Silence is enough to express countless emotions in love. However, in friendship a slight conformation is required. That is the second spot which sets love and friendship apart. However, love and friendship are almost alike in many respects. One of life’s biggest contests is to demarcate friendship from love. The answer to this problem is embedded in the dark corner of the heart which is untold until one takes the first step to read everything in the eyes of the person whose character and attitude are exclusively the things that teaches you to live life in the best way possible…..

To prevent the heart from overestimating friendship as love and obstructing the mind to mistrust love as friendship are solely the two errands that will decide upon your success in life. Friendship is also a form of love. However, love is a bond which can never establish itself if friendship is absent in the first step that leads to the realization of this eternal feeling. Understanding these two important concepts only, decide your fate to take delight in the happiness and bliss which awaits us in life.

Dear Life.....

Hyderabad
20th April,2008

Chère vie,

I dunno how to begin. I’d begun learning with the advent of your arrival. I was completely at sea when I needed to speak to you. It was merely because I never knew you. The introspection sessions that you held so often for me have made me realize that human life is all about making a better person as time progresses. Having learnt the tricks of tackling the ups and downs is something that I will always cherish. Im indebted to you for having accompanied me to move further on a road where I was stranded at a certain stage.

I met you as a daughter. I was looking forward to know the meaning of ‘Maa’. And till date I continue to search for its significance. Perhaps, it was an inborn flaw that deprived me of interacting with ‘Mother’s Love’. It was,it is and it shall continue to be an incapability to achieve this target. And the result, I haven’t proven myself as a good daughter. Hopefully, in the next birth I hope I get 1% of it so that I can establish 0.1% of myself as a good daughter.

I think its friendship that has brought us so close. After having confronted my luck in my former battle, I think switching over to the overture of friendship was the only choice left, to make something out of my existence. It was the first step that led me towards happiness. However, I regret that I took too long to make this resolution-16yrs after we met each other. At the dawn of our friendship, I approached friends who were destined to meet me. They have added colour to the world where I breathe. I am living in an atmosphere where my pals and you mean the world to me. I have shared a bond with you which is stronger than I could have shared with any other soul. The intricacies of my world are a part and parcel of your soul. You know me the best. Dear life, thank you for having gifted me with an overwhelming present on my 16th birthday. You gifted me my buddies who have taught me to flow along with the tide.

The 17th year of my life helped me discover that the world is too bad to live in. However, it’s your choice of living either in the good or bad part of humankind that makes the difference between a happy and a gloomy living. Being good to people who are rude to you only makes you a better person. Following this path can help u spread cheerfulness and bliss which finally transforms the bad into good and the good into better.

Lots of love,
Akansha.